Throughout my life, I have occasionally gone into conflicts with friends, family and people that I come into contact with during the course of my everyday life. Along the way it has given me a better understanding of what the word “closure” means in relation to myself.
I come to think of a situation going on for many years. Finally, I realised that there was literally nothing more I could offer to resolve the situation. I had reached a line that I was not prepared to cross anymore. Therefore, the only way that I could move forward, was to ask myself the question: “What do I do when other parties simply do not wish to understand or find a middle ground?” Without putting blame onto others, I felt there was nothing more I could do.
After struggling with this situation for many years, emotionally I had reached a point where I had exhausted every possible avenue that I could explore. I decided to ask spirit for help. Then I heard the voice of my guide, Ascala:
Let it go! You cannot spend any more time on people who are not ready to listen or go through the process of self-examination. The most important thing you should do is be honest with yourself. Focus on your own life and move on. That is the most important thing you have to do now. The other parties do not wish to take any responsibility. Spontaneous realisation will hopefully enlighten them to their part in this situation.
“Emotionally and mentally ridding yourself of the burden that you carry, would be a form of closure for you.
You have tried, and as far as we can sense, you have been honest. Whether it be in life or death, all of us ultimately will have to face the truth about ourselves, including you, Terry. The closure for you is to get on with your own life. The others involved in the situation will have a choice. One day they may realise their part in things, perhaps not. That is not a matter you should concern yourself with any longer. In moving on and focusing on your own life is how you can leave the past behind and give future time to resolve the issue. This is a situation that you alone cannot fix, you have done what you can. Therefore, should you persist with this matter, ultimately it will have a detrimental effect on you.
Many years ago, we told you that people who are part of this situation would have to find their own way, they have their own karma to deal with. By you moving on is the healthiest thing you could do. Life and time will take care of this matter. Emotionally and mentally ridding yourself of the burden that you carry, would be a form of closure for you.
Everybody in your world has a past where they could have done things in a better way, where they have made mistakes that have affected others, without realising it. There have also been times, when they have realised what they were doing. I can promise you that without any further intervention by you this matter will be ultimately resolved. We already have the answer, leave it to us. You have already played your part, there is nothing further that you can do. In moving on you give yourself respect and you are listening to the voice of your soul.