Something I have learnt over the years teaching classes is that I can say one thing to 20 people and they will all receive it in their way. It partly depends on how I teach, but we are all different with different levels of awareness and different ways of perceiving information.
When I am communicating with an individual I try to get a sense of who they are. In doing that I have been able to find a language that an individual or a group dynamic can be open to. I find it very important to develop that skill so that you can do your utmost to connect with the individual. So, I listen to how they make me feel and that can be a very useful key to connect it with them.
It does not matter what walk of life we come from or what work we do. I have personally had teachers that have been highly educated. They have vast knowledge, but not the ability to communicate to reach people.
In my work as a medium, healer, teacher, writing for Aftonbladet Söndag or working for tv, I always try to pick up the feeling of the person. That offers me a profile of who they are and where they are. I have had to learn how to do it, but it has taken time
On the other hand when spirit people are communicating with me they have to use the same technique. They have to get a profile of me, what I can do and what I cannot. They know my weaknesses and my strengths. So when they communicate with me it is in a language that I understand. In turn I have to pass on the information I receive to the recipient. Words are not always enough, sometimes words without feelings are worthless, especially when you are trying to communicate with students or a recipient of a message.
When I receive letters in my work for AS I read the text and sit with it for a little while and feel it. As I feel it that is when I am really listening to what they are saying or are asking for. The more I try to develop this skill, the more I also become the student. So as a teacher it opens up my inner world and shows me other ways in how to improve the skill I have.
When I have worked with psychic investigation where there is a lot of paranormal activity I listen to the family. Then I get a picture of what is happening within the dynamic of that particular family. Every house has its memories and when I pick them up I also feel them and put words to them.
Whatever ones profession is, we all have feelings and if we listen to those feelings they offer us important information. So next time, however you wish to communicate in your work, with your partner or your children, try the same technique. I think you will find that it will open new doors for you. It is an amazing journey to take.