Sometimes it is like my house has a soul. It is as if it is telling me to rearrange things, clear out or bring new things in. Many people have asked me: “Can an item that you buy second hand have bad energy? Very often when I go to a “loppis” (second-hand shop), which is kind of a hobby of mine, I can be attracted to something because of its appearance, but then I do not like the way it makes me feel.
I believe it is important to remove things that are no longer used and pass them on to a “loppis” or something, where some one else can find them. If you just hoard things and leave them in boxes they do no longer serve a purpose. Then I think you have to let them go. One could compare it to friendship. Sometimes it can come to a point where you have to pass way with a friend. Then you are rearranging your inner house, clearing out yourself. So to pass things on and clear out is a circle.
Whether it is within myself or in my home it feels as if a burden has been lifted and a new order and a new feeling has been created. Every house has a different collection of frequencies. Whether it is within my mind or in a relationship for me it is really important, because in many respects I am a person that likes order. To clear out is also a very creative thing, it makes room for new creativity and new perspectives.
When my wife and I do it together there are always discussions, but we usually meet at a middle ground and agree upon what we want to do – most of the time. When you are facing yourself in personal development you are also able to clear out things that no longer serve you. And then you create a new order, with feelings etc. Leaving behind the things that have just become unnecessary luggage.
My wife and I are both kind of collectors, we both likes second hand and such. To make room for the things that we buy we have to let go of old things and sometimes I do not want to do that. There is a discussion, but it certainly creates an active dynamic in our family, but active means it is alive. We are not wallowing in negativity, we move on.
When we clear out in our marriage sometimes it leaves us with a very satisfying feeling. It opens new doors. It is like Feng Shui. You can do it with your home, yourself or with a partner. It creates positive vibes.
I would like to hear what you all think about this.