We have three forms of human intelligence: logic (IQ), emotional intelligence (EQ) and the soul’s intelligence (SQ). In my opinion logic does not always give the answers. Emotional intelligence is about becoming more aware of what is happening to me. Emotions can be very disruptive and block us. Unknowingly we demand things that we are not ready to receive or understand.
When I work as a medium with private readings, I tell people to have an open mind, and try not to demand things during the reading. If they are blocked like that, with a lot of demands, they are blocking the soul’s intelligence; who we are and what we are meant to do in this life. Many years ago, I realised one thing that intelligence knows everything about me. It has a picture of who I am emotionally.
The soul’s intelligence has also inspired me to make a life long journey to meet myself. I have always been guided to the right teacher or the right therapist or healer. They helped me clear out a lot of the issues that I carry. I do believe personal development for mediums is important. When you can meet yourself you have a chance to grow with all your aspects.
When working as a medium I am just a neutral channel. I have to allow my logic to step to one side and allow my emotional intelligence to come in, so that I can feel what the spirit contact is feeling and relate to it. I also have to allow any emotional issues I might have to be put to one side and be in contact with my own emotional status. Whatever I feel that is coming from a spirit contact, I should be disciplined and not allow the emotions to take me over. The soul’s intelligence needs to have a free access to me. It takes time to learn this. I have to allow the spirit contact to synchronise with my mind.
For many years I just worked as a medium, I never tried to force anything else. Because when you allow the soul’s intelligence to work with you, it will show you when you are ready to move forward. The word synchronicity always worked. In the early days of my mediumship, I was told I should be a professional, but I just knew the time would come to me, because of synchronicity.
IQ, EQ and SQ is very important. Throughout my life I have done one thing that has been very successful for me, I have been in tune with these tree aspects. I have known the opportunity will come if I just wait and continue working. When an opportunity comes these three aspects of my intelligence klick. When something is right, I will just know it. If I allow my ego to say yes before I am ready, then I am not allowing my emotions to speak their truth.
After 50 years I have learned a lot of things and made a lot of mistakes, but I do not make mistakes when it comes to synchronicity. When it comes, I listen. The important thing is to have trust and let go of control. You have to bee in touch with your ego and stop being a people pleaser.
If you allow synchronicity to become a part of you it will work as a magical key that will open up doors and take you into places in your mind that you could never believe. And then, when they work together it will help you move forward with your development in what ever area you are meant to work within. I have myself realised other kinds of intelligence that I was not aware of that I had as a young man.
Synchronicity is the connection of the three intelligences, the magical triangle. When you do not have to interfere with everything then the magic really starts happening and the next step will be revealed to you. This has given me a sense of freedom that I would not want to live without.
What does this touch within you? Does it inspire you?