My father disappeared from my life when I was five years old. As an adult, one night I had a dream and in the dream my father said to me: “Why do you want to meet me?” My answer was: “I just want to know who you were.” I awoke from the dream and there my father was standing in the bedroom, and I said: “Are you dead or alive?”, but he did not answer. He gave me information of how I could find him and what road I would drive along to meet him, once I had done my own research and found more information. I followed this information, and to cut a very long story short, everything he had given me proved to be correct, but it took time to piece it all together.
About eight weeks later I found myself travelling along the road he had said I would be travelling on that would take me to the county of Essex. I was going to meet half brothers and sisters that I had never met before when I first contacted these half brothers and sisters, they told me my father had passed over in 1985.
The most interesting thing was, I had found my father and he had found me. We had made that connection that I believe gave us both peace of mind. The emptiness I had felt as a child up until meeting him had disappeared, because of that meeting my father became a part of me. From that day, from time to time he comes to visit me. He talks to me or gives me advice.
Once I started working for TV, I realised that I still had the ability to convey information that could help solve a mystery or give answers. In doing so I have been given feedback that as a result of my investigations people have found peace of mind and been able to move on. It has proved to be a valuable experience for me in terms of developing my own skills. That is why I will be starting a project with this theme in Ascala News, I am eager to see how far it will take us. Hopefully with my abilities as a medium I can assist others in solving mysteries from the past, whether it is a historian or an archaeologist, or an individual looking for someone from the past.